Ex-Lovers and Would-be Starf***ers

•April 3, 2009 • 2 Comments

glitter_close_up Here’s your glitter, nice and big upfront for  ya.

Now that we’ve gotten than part out of the way…..

Maybe we can move on to better things? No, just wanted braggin rights?  Well you have permission to say that you’ve fucked me even if you havent, bc frankly Im tired.

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NCSF Blog and Twitter! AND MORE

•March 30, 2009 • Leave a Comment

After the last weekend we, the NCSF joint board of directors, of the NCSF and ITCR, have ironed a lot of things out, developed a plan for better communications and more effective programmes.
Step one, better communication. We need to better keep you informed of what we are doing:
http://www.twitter.com/NCSF
http://ncsf.wordpress.com

Bruises and Roses: Post Shoot Afterglow

•March 14, 2009 • 3 Comments

titbruisesmall1Yesterday I had my big shoot with Master Costello and company.  It was a full day of torture and torment Germany style.  We shot a cute little film about an American girl who is sent to Germany to learn proper German SM, and the ‘real’ words for the implements and activities…that all good slave girls should know. Yet again I discover that my ability for pain isnt what it should/could be, and that when it comes to traditional ass-beating SM Im a bit of a wuss :(  Also, in a very real and practical way I learned just how importance trust really is to any kind of SM play.

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The Price of Porn & Berlin’s Sex Culture

•March 11, 2009 • 3 Comments

sexkinostreetviewI am happy to report that there is a distinct lack of sexual censorship in Berlin.  This comes as a welcome surprise to my usual puritain-inspired surroundings.  What you see here is a typical view walking down almost any large commercial area of Berlin.  Thats right, these houses of sordid and pickled fancy are not glommed together, outcast to one seedy underlit alley….no they are spread out, in all sorts of different neighbourhoods, from the cheap and mostly low income and foreigner occupied areas to the ritzy residential and highly touristy areas.  This particular image is on Rosa-Luxemburg-Strasse, a central, main, subway-having street in Berlin’s most central and desirably neighbourhood, Mitte.  This shop is flanked by fancy clothing boutiques, nice restaurants, an international movie theatre, and POSH stage theatre and constant foot traffic.

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VOTE FOR MEEEEE! (ill give you presents :)

•March 6, 2009 • Leave a Comment

http://www.bondageawards.com/stage_one_voting.asp

ok guys!allieescapesmall

Ive been nominated, so now you need to VOTE FOR ME:

Categories for me:

BEST MODEL

BEST RIGGER

BEST FREE WEBSITE

BEST WRITER

Obviously you love me, or you wouldnt be here reading this right now, and even if you dont love me, maybe you think Im sexy and if Im sexy then Im doing a good job at at least ONE of the above things, so vote for me!!! YAY!

+ email me and tell me what you voted for me for and Ill give you an exclusive photo of me doing something of your dirty minded choice here in BERLIN!

woooooo

thanks in advance XO

Sexy Doppelganger in SF

•February 27, 2009 • 3 Comments
Doppelganger

“A” was a cute girl, a sexy girl, and we had a lot of fun.  This year she was even my Valentine.

Its been a while since I picked up a girl at a bar but this time I could feel that she just wanted me, and well she was my type.

Curvy, round breasts, full lips, and long black hair…sound like anyone else we know? Thats right, I am my own type…so when I find girls like me, Im all over it….

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Sex laws in NYC- NCSF

•February 27, 2009 • Leave a Comment

NCSF Statement on Professional Dominatrices in New York

NCSF has been contacted by over a dozen concerned members of the BDSM community in New York about the arrests of dozens of professional Dominatrices in Manhattan that started in early 2008. The pro-Domme community in New York City, which has been a vibrant part of the BDSM community for decades, has been ravaged by these prosecutions for prostitution and for promoting prostitution, resulting in the closure of a number of pro-Domme houses.

NCSF contacted the Manhattan DA’s office in order to clarify what sort of “for-pay” BDSM activities are considered legal in New York State. On February 5th, Susan Wright, along with outside counsel, met with ADA Leroy Frazer and Lisa Friel, head of the Sex Crimes Unit, to get their legal opinion.

Pro-Dommes have traditionally considered their BDSM-for-pay to be legal. One case decided by a local misdemeanor court, People v. Georgia A., 163 Misc.2d 634 (Crim. Ct. Kings Co. 1994), supports this position, holding that “sado-masochistic acts such as domination, foot licking, spanking and submission” are not “sexual conduct” prohibited by the prostitution statute. However, that decision is not binding even on other misdemeanor courts, and Ms. Friel described it as “not worth the paper it was written on.” Also, as stated in Georgia A.:

“The term sexual conduct is not defined in the statute but has since been described in various cases. That conduct includes acts of masturbation, homosexuality, sexual intercourse, or physical contact of the person’s clothed or unclothed genitals, buttocks or a woman’s breast. ( People v Block, 71 Misc 2d 714 [1972].)”

According to ADA Frazer, their office does not make prosecution of pro-Dommes a priority. However, according to their interpretation of the law, any form of “payment in exchange for touching in an intimate place either over clothing or nude” would constitute prostitution. This includes any touching of the genitals, anus, and breasts.

Under Georgia A, certain BDSM activities such as humiliation, role-play, foot worship, D/s, service activities, and bondage were found to be exempt from the prostitution statute, as long as no other sexual activities were involved.  Ms. Friel opined Georgia A is based on a misunderstanding of the scope of the prostitution statute and that “sexual conduct” should be defined as what is arousing to the participants, not what is arousing to the outside “vanilla” observer.

Therefore, activities such as flogging, CBT or genitorture, spanking, body worship and nipple torture, in addition to more overtly sexual activities, would fall within the Manhattan DA’s understanding of prostitution when they are done for pay and either party is aroused by them.

NCSF opposes the prosecution of pro-dominants under prostitution laws. Consenting adults engaging in safe, sane, consensual SM, fetishes, and cross-dressing services do not pose legitimate health or safety issues for local communities. What these adults agree to do in private is no one else’s business.

NCSF is currently exploring ways to cooperate with other sex-positive activist groups in New York City to protest these arrests, as well as the alleged entrapment and arrests of gay men for prostitution. If you have been arrested for prostitution for doing BDSM activities, or if you would like more information, please contact: susanw@ncsfreedom.org

No hope for the sex worker?

•February 20, 2009 • 1 Comment

secretdiarySecret Diary of a Call Girl is kinda like my therapy. On a cold, lonely night I can sit back and drift into a little fantasy of call girl heaven, where the clients are gorgeous and the interludes contrived……yet oh so much fun, and the British accents dont hurt.

But somewhere in the middle of season 2, things started to get a bit, below the belt as it were, even for this show.

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Bondage a Go Go, San Fran

•February 13, 2009 • 6 Comments

Hey folks. As you know, because you cyber stalk me and compulsively check my calendar for updates, I am on the road and I am currently in San Francisco.

Last night I had the distinct honor of being on the guest list of the fabulous, talented and extremely gracious Mike West for Bondage A Go Go: SF’s longest running (16 years) Bondage and SM Dance party/dungeon.  With a factoid like that, being the oldest and most established public play party in SM Mecca, I understandably had very high expectations and was looking forward to a rockin sexy good time.

I was not disappointed…..

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NCSF: Help Save Lifestyle events at hotels!

•February 10, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Action Alert

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Call InterContinental Hotel Group to Preserve our Venues

As more BDSM events come under attack by the religious political extremists, we need to be vigilant in maintaining good relations with our host hotels and their corporate headquarters. Please call InterContinental Hotel Group and tell them you’re very glad they supported Winter Wickedness held at the Holiday Inn Worthington in Ohio this past weekend. (www.adventuresinsexuality.org/wicked09.html)

Winter Wickedness was a huge success with over 400 people holding firm in the face of adversity. This BDSM conference was affirmed legal and safe by both the local police department and the county health department. Though religious extremists tried to shut down the event, attendees reported a feeling of solidarity and community when faced with this outside threat, and as it became clear that we were winning, there was an extra relish in participating in an exciting and educational event in spite of these attacks.

If you called InterContinental Hotel Group and the operator did not take your name and number, or if they didn’t give you a confirmation code, then they did *not* log your call. Please call again! You don’t have to give your name or contact info if you’d like to remain anonymous, but be sure to get a confirmation code.

Intercontinental Hotels Group Corporate Customer service line: 800-621-0555, then press option 1, then option 5.

Or send an email to: media@ihg.com Thank them for not discriminating against groups, and for being willing to face minor adversity for the sake of our freedom.

It’s very important to stand up for ourselves now! Thank you to everyone who called InterContinental Hotel Group – without you we wouldn’t be able to hold our events.

February 10, 2009

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The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities, who often face discrimination because of their sexual expression.

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

822 Guilford Avenue, Box 127

Baltimore, MD 21202-3707

917-848-6544

media@ncsfreedom.org

www.ncsfreedom.org