Fresh Brewed- foot fetish memory lane

•November 9, 2008 • Leave a Comment

One day a package arrived in the mail,  A large cushioned mailing envelope from an unknown person, stuffed into my PO Box in Pittsburgh PA.  This was not an usual occurrence, although usually the unexpected ones were off-putting at best.  So here is this envelope, with what feels like a large stiff card, or folder inside of it and Im thinking “oh jeez, fat guy nude bondage pix package number 511”.

So I walked across the street back to my studio, casually opening the package with an eye for the nearest garbage can.  What I saw stopped me dead in my tracks.

WOLFORD

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Sex-U-All-ity

•November 9, 2008 • 1 Comment

Sex is a term that has a broad base of meaning. Most commonly referring to fornication or copulation, it is a more versatile term, and should not be confined to genital or pituitary functions. Modern psychology frames sexuality in terms of object relation, in practical terms WANT, ATTAIN, USE, SATISFY. This demonstrates the nature of “sexual” more accurately. Sex operates the pleasure pathway in the brain and triggers the same neurochemicals in the brain that food, water, breathing and exercise do. You know that phrase “it’s better than” of “it’s as good as sex”?  Relative to the human experience, “sex” could be used in our everyday language for behaviours or events that include actions taken towards or achieving the fulfillment of desire.

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Old Sex Toy Review- Vibrating Cock Ring

•November 9, 2008 • 2 Comments

Soft Touch AROUSER w/ Mini Torpedo, Swedish Erotica: ♀ ♂

Vibrating cock rings sound like a great idea. For those of you jr. achievers who don’t know what a cock ring is, it is a RING that goes around the base of your COCK, or the cock and balls to make you harder, for longer, more sensitive to stand the test of time so that your dick doesn’t become the limp piece of crap you try to pass off on drunk sorority girls that you normally con into sleeping with you. Men use them while masturbating because the constriction increases sensitivity, and this one is cushy and thick and soft enough so it could be used as a cock sleeve/pocket pussy/masturbator for men tired of doing “the stranger”.

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Feminzation- some types and thoughts

•November 9, 2008 • Leave a Comment

Some old thoughts about Feminization back from when I was a Pro Domme:

1) Forced Femme as Humiliation “Sissification” (aka Madame’s puny little sissy)- the main notion here is that the subject (victim) at play is unworthy as a man and therefore he must be ridiculed and chastised for his lack of masculinity or inability to please etc. (in most cases for merely being a submissive) by being forced to wear maid’s outfits and scrub floors with a toothbrush, or their tongue, oversized granny panties, hobble skirts, or prohibitively high heels…and then further mocked for the difficulties these things present them. These people tend to have only mild curiosity about transvestism, such that they would not do so except under “duress” and not alone for their own sake unless there was the possibility of being caught or they were under orders. Prime candidates of course are those who expressed some aversion to the notion, if humiliation is the key.

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Importance of Medical Disclosure

•November 9, 2008 • Leave a Comment

When approaching a Master or Mistress, They will each have a list of requirements and prerequisites necessary for servitude. Fairly high on My list of demands is the disclosure of medical history. Tops of all sorts need to be able to gauge the risk and are often responsible for the well being of their bottom- any “damage” to be done should be well thought out, and the scope of which should be understood by all parties involved and not the result of carelessness or reckless behaviour. There is a risk involved with any form of BDSM even down to the simplest D/s relationship- you are in a position where someone else has power over you, and without notice likely will do something without consulting you. Continue reading ‘Importance of Medical Disclosure’

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Medical Transformation- a green eyed fantasy

•November 8, 2008 • Leave a Comment

She walks into the hotel room, wheeling a large suitcase behind her. Under a long winter coat which she promptly removes, is a latex nurse’s dress, which shines like a pearl removed from an oyster. With ease she lifts the suitcase, places it on one of the twin beds and begins to set up her operating room. Her tools are set up and sorted in perfect order, case after case of sterile pre-packaged steel. She also sets up a surgical tray, IV stand, and heart monitor.

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Military Erotica

•November 8, 2008 • 1 Comment

I walk out of My quarters, and cross the hall to the exercise room in the barracks. An entire army of eager soldiers waiting to do My every bidding. And I choose…………..domciddsmall

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Bondage Advice for a former student

•November 8, 2008 • 1 Comment

Below is the copy of some questions from a student and some answers.  This student attended my Rope Bondage Basics and Everything You Want to Know about Rope class at Passional in Philadelphia.

– i have a hard time with manipulating the ropes when they are behind me.   any tips or techniques to help me with keeping the bulk down to a minimum and tension steady?

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My ropiness….notes and thoughts

•November 7, 2008 • Leave a Comment

Rope Rope Rope Rope.

I love rope and that should go without saying but actually my relationship to rope keeps changing.

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The things I want and like

•November 7, 2008 • Leave a Comment

So I often get asked what flips my switch(es)

The tried and true:

Rape Fantasy- Me the victim.

I like and dislike strong aggressive relentless displays of sexual prowess.  Sometimes I think that if presented with strong enough sexual urgency and persistence that I am not actually capable of saying no, or doing anything to stop it.  This paralysis, this ambivalence torn between options is really potent for me.  Anything that makes me stop in my tracks, grnds me to a halt, literally has the ability to take me over.  Abduction=bonus.  Military= Double word score and Nazi play= triple word score.

Crossdressing- Me the stylist.

There is something just too sexy about a man stretching out my tight slutty clothing, popping out of my panties or even being a virile mirror image of me.  This makes me wet.  If I sit on yor lap while you are wearing my panties perhaps my wetness becomes your pussy juice and your dick is my dick when I ride on top of you.  Hot.  Yes, its true.

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